The decisions regarding placing a family member into a nursing home are some of the toughest that a spouse, child or family member will be faced with. The decision is not just based on finances, but is deeply rooted on emotions…which by the way are not consistent day to day. Unfortunately, many people do not think ahead when it comes to nursing home care (for many very legitimate reasons), and that means that choices may become even harder and potentially more limited.Talking to a Charlotte elder attorney in advance can provide an invaluable opportunity for pre-planning.