Discussion about parenting plan mediation generally focuses on the people at the table – the parents. Those parents who reach agreement express satisfaction. They save time and money by avoiding further action in court. They often appreciate the communication that the process facilitates. They leave mediation with a written document required by the courts and recognized by state law. But, the true beneficiaries of successful mediation are actually the children.

A considerable body of research indicates what most impedes good outcomes for children when their parents separate is ongoing conflict between the parents. And, the most consistent predictor of post-separation adjustment problems for children is parental conflict.

Originally published in Dispute Resolution Center of Thurston County's October 2013 Newsletter on October 12, 2013.