The trend is to move away from holiday parties. Some companies are opting for a family picnic in the summer instead, or a party in January after the holiday season is over. If your company is still planning a holiday party this season, given the heightened attention to harassment issues, here are some tips to consider:
Explain to management that they are “on duty”:
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They must watch drinking and related behavior
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Remember professional boundaries
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No touching (preferably even when dancing)
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Do not drive employees home after the party
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Do not “after-party” with staff
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Use the “mom test” (i.e. if you wouldn’t do/say it to your mom or
in front of your mom, then don’t do/say it)
Remind employees that you want them to have fun, but:
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Normal standards of conduct still apply
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Misconduct at or after the party will lead to disciplinary action
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Drink responsibly
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No marijuana (even if legal)
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Encourage designated drivers (provide a gift) or ride sharing
For everyone:
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Follow my “one wine, one water” rule (it is hard to get drunk if you drink a full glass or two of water between every alcoholic drink)
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No dirty dancing
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No sleep-overs after the party (or couch surfing)
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And for goodness sake, please don’t hang mistletoe!
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