This goes for all personal and professional relationships in your life. I heard a woman on a podcast say this, and it struck me. She was speaking about meeting her husband and when things clicked versus when they first met,...more
Imagination is a powerful tool that fuels creativity and innovation, as well as personal and professional growth. It allows you to envision possibilities beyond what currently exists and break free from the constraints of...more
We all are works in progress, constantly evolving and developing as individuals throughout our lives. Just as a painting or a sculpture takes time to reach its final form, so does every person. Each experience you encounter,...more
Passion is an intangible and invaluable element when it comes to one’s work. It is the driving force that fuels creativity, determination, and commitment – ultimately leading to personal fulfillment and success. Passion...more
I firmly believe that perspective matters significantly in the world of business. Perspective is the lens through which we view and interpret issues, in my case, legal issues. This can greatly influence the outcomes and...more
In a world that is constantly evolving, being a change agent is not only an admirable quality but also a necessity. Change agents are individuals who challenge the status quo, question existing norms, and actively work...more
“Fear is a liar” is a powerful statement that emphasizes how fear can deceive and manipulate our perceptions and decision-making. Fear often distorts our perception of reality, leading us to believe in worst-case scenarios...more
In-person work has several benefits for both employees and employers, but hybrid work – a mix of in-person and remote work – also has its advantages. One of the primary benefits of in-person work is the opportunity for...more
Innovation and creativity are crucial for the growth and success of any business. Trying something new can help you and your businesses to stay relevant and competitive in the market. There are various ways to try something...more
I recently heard my wife say “not my monkey, not my circus” and it struck me how important a concept it is in all aspects of life. It’s a colloquial phrase that conveys the idea that one is not responsible for the problems...more
As a partner at a law firm, I have seen the positive impact that employee happiness can have on a company. Happy employees are more productive, engaged, and committed to their work. In turn, this can lead to increased...more
You read that correctly. When you apologize for some action or inaction, there may well be a reason. If you explain that reason as part of the apology you are making an excuse, not making an honest apology.
An easy example...more
It is important to try to maintain some level of organization and structure in your life as this can help you to feel more in control and reduce stress. However, it’s also important to recognize that some level of chaos and...more
I recently read this good piece of advice. It’s easy to jump to conclusions or make judgments about people without knowing all the facts. Making assumptions isn’t a good idea, as pointed out in old movies and television...more
Curiosity is an essential human trait that drives us to learn new things, explore the world around us, and seek out new experiences. Being curious and having a desire to learn makes life more interesting and can help you to...more
I think I have a pretty good memory. If I dial your phone number few times, I will likely remember it. I remember many stories and random details people tell me. However, I cannot remember everything I want or need to, and...more
After losing the Super Bowl last Sunday, Philadelphia Eagles’ quarterback Jalen Hurts responded to a media question about the loss by saying “you either win or you learn.” This response applies to losing or failing in any...more
Setting goals and then being in action are important because they help you focus on what you want to achieve and give you a sense of purpose. When you have a clear goal in mind, you are more likely to stay motivated and work...more
I am speaking about controlling your schedule in an affirmative manner and not just being reactive all day long. There are many ways to do this, some of which I have written about before, which means the first step is to...more
When you go through an interview or meet someone, is there something about you or you have done that people will remember? I recently read something that suggested younger adults do at least three fascinating things in their...more
Deliberate planning is important for several reasons and is important to think about at this time of year. It helps you to set goals and create a roadmap for achieving them. It also helps to anticipate potential challenges...more
Presence refers to the state of being aware and engaged in the present moment. It is the opposite of being distracted. Being present can be difficult, especially in today’s fast-paced, technology-driven world where we are...more
Beginning in 2014, I wrote about needing an annual check-up. Many of you read those blog posts about an annual checkup for you and, if you have one, your business. This does not involve the doctor, but it does involve all...more
Preparation is everything. It makes things look easy and natural. In my world it is being prepared for a trial, closing of a transaction, oral argument, or the first meeting with a new client. People know when you are...more
Many of us sit in place all day and work hard. This is bad for you both mentally and physically. When you’re focused on an important task or project, you are “on a roll” and stay in your chair, not even getting up to stretch...more